Here is some more information on Kyle from a family that met him:
He wanted to be adopted by my wife for sure. He bonded with her during a orphans camp that she volunteered at this last July. It was in Yantai. I believe that he could still bond with another family.
He loves basketball and airplanes.
He has not been in the orphanage all his life. He was placed there three years ago after his mother's death. His father died when he was about two. His surviving family is unable to support him.
He won't talk about his mother's death. Some of his family believe he may have witnessed it.
He is respectful and mature.
By the way, his only special need is his age. He is normal in all accounts as far as we know.